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Years ago my daughter's pre-school (yes I said years ago) would celebrate each child's birthday by saying goodbye to their old age and hello to their new age. I loved this and have been using this to move from one ending to a new beginning.

You and I are doing it for the New Year!

In today's short BONUS episode I give you three things to do to close out 2018 and enter 2019.  It will take you 15 minutes.  Set a timer and don't go over 20 minutes MAX!

 

Direct download: Goodby_2018...HELLO_2019_BONUS.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:57am PDT

Before ENOUGH, Steve didn't realize he could change.  Even though he's 54 years old and very intelligent, he didn't know that he could chnage the way he did things, the way he reacted to things. Instead one of his standard behaviors was to numb with his phone and the computer. 

Sound familiar?

Steve shares his journey with you to what is possible when one commits to oneself.

If this is possible for Steve...what is possible for you?

 

Direct download: What_is_possible_when_one_commits_to_oneself.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 7:05pm PDT

Vulnerability is becoming a common buzzword these days.  You can hear it on TV shows like Scandal and Nashville.  You pick up a book and the word is there.

Why all the talk?  In today's podcast I discuss why vulnerability is here and how it's vital for you to live the life you really, really, really want!

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • What vulnerability is
  • Why it's important/vital for you to live the life you want
  • The difference between fear + vulnerability
Direct download: What_the_heck_is_all_this_talk_about_vulnerability.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Are you a people pleaser?  That's a nice way to call it instead of my favorite term of "approval whore."  

Today I've invited one of my clients to talk about her journey with life coaching and how she went from an "approval whore" to the ability to own her voice even if that meant an important person in her life would hate her.

You are getting the back stage pass of what happens and what it's really like to transform and become the best version of you.  Rose discusses her fears about doing this as well as her successes. 

Check out the show http://bit.ly/2UJj2w2

Direct download: Living_the_Tools_of_Life_Coaching_Case_Study.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 11:37am PDT

You want to change.

You really, really want to change.

Do you believe you can change?

And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren’t sure how to change.

I have just the thing for you in today’s podcast: the process with real tangible stories for you to change.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Making the decision to change
  • Committing to the decision and the steps for you to take.
  • Believing before….
  • Accountability practice

RESOURCES FOR YOU

  • Ready to join the ENOUGH program. Join the waitlist to the ENOUGH program.
  • If you want to start cultivating your ENOUGHness sign up HERE to get weekly SUNDAY LOVE + FRIDAY PODCAST and so much more…

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Direct download: I_can_change_DEEP_DIVE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Stop waiting for others to give you permission. You are an adult now and you get to give yourself permission.

You want to be the leader of your life. You want to be empowered. You want to create the results in your life that your heart desires. It all starts with giving yourself permission.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • As an adult you are the leader of your life
  • Permission is a compassionate practice
  • How to give yourself permission
  • Permission examples

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

  • Learn more about the ENOUGH program
  • Ready to join the ENOUGH program. Join the waitlist to the ENOUGH program.

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Direct download: Give_yourself_permission_MINISODE_.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

I used to believe once I “arrived” I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes.

One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is that it creates tremendous pain + frustration.

In this episode I talk about the beauty of the mess and how you will empower your life by living with this re-frame. The mess is actually suppose to happen and there is so much for you to gain.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • the teachers in our lives
  • the lessons from the mess
  • becoming resilient

RESOURCES FOR YOU

  • Ready to join the ENOUGH program. Join the waitlist to the ENOUGH program.
  • If you want to start cultivating your ENOUGHness sign up HERE to get weekly SUNDAY LOVE + FRIDAY PODCAST and so much more…

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Direct download: The_beauty_in_the_mess_DEEP_DIVE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

I feel like dirt is not a feeling.

And even better, this crappy feeling you have won’t last forever. In this podcast we discuss why it’s important to identify and feel the feeling and how to move through it so the feelings stop overtaking you and your life.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Clarity on what feelings are
  • How long feelings actually last
  • How to feel your feelings
  • Importance of emotional intelligence

RESOURCES FOR YOU

  • Ready to join the ENOUGH program. Join the waitlist to the ENOUGH program.
  • If you want to start cultivating your ENOUGHness sign up HERE to get weekly SUNDAY LOVE + FRIDAY PODCAST and so much more…

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Direct download: This_feeling_wont_last_forever_MINISODE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 6:34am PDT

“Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??”

Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me. In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will learn from overcoming the shaming from our cultural beliefs.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • How moccasins meant I was acceptable.
  • The difference between fitting in and belonging
  • Shame + Money
  • Closing the gap

RESOURCES FOR YOU

  • Ready to join the ENOUGH program. Join the waitlist to the ENOUGH program.
  • If you want to start cultivating your ENOUGHness sign up HERE to get weekly SUNDAY LOVE + FRIDAY PODCAST and so much more…

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Direct download: When_You_Can_Wear_Fake_Uggs_.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Feeling uncomfortable. Want to run away? Want to hide?

I get it. And here I’m asking you to become comfortable with the uncomfortable.

Join me today as I dive into why we don’t want to be uncomfortable + how you will actually benefit from becoming comfortable with the uncomfortable. And I’ll also share with you why the altnerative sucks.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Why we don’t want to be uncomfortable.
  • How you will actually benefit from becoming comfortable with the uncomfortable.
  • Why the alternative sucks.

RESOURCES FOR YOU

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Direct download: Becoming_comfortable_with_the_uncomfortable.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

Reduce your brain juice drain.
I’m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn’t restrictive.
Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Making the wrong decision
  • Reducing brain juice drain
  • Deciding ahead of time actually supports you not restricts you.

RESOURCES FOR YOU

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Direct download: Deciding_Ahead_of_Time_Deep_Dive.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 6:38am PDT

Stop the drama.
Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice.
Stop wasting your your brain juice.
Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized.
Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients!

Make sure you download it.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • What’s brain juice
  • Brain juice depeletion
  • Three types of business

RESOURCES FOR YOU

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Direct download: Brain_Juice_MINISODE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 6:48am PDT

How often do you find yourself saying “This shouldn’t be happening.”
What happens when you do that.
What’s a better alternative.
Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients!

Make sure you download it.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • What happens when we resist + argue
  • Byron Katie’s insight “When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time.”
  • Resistance
  • Overcoming
  • What to replace “This shouldn’t be happening.”

RESOURCES FOR YOU

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: This_shouldnt_be_happening_DEEP_DIVE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

It’s time to celebrate 12 years of this podcast and this journey we have all been on.
In today’s show, I have a special guest for you. She is a long time listener and has been through the show’s evolvement as well as her own personal evolvement as a client.
Join us as Miriam shares with you her experience of implementing the topics I discuss on How She Really Does It into her life.
Not only is this the place where inspiration + possibility meet, but it’s also the place where one actually implements all this content into real life.

Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients and Miriam too!

Make sure you download it.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • what does mindset practice look like
  • committing to the best case scenario
  • behind the scenes of what it really looks like in a clients life
  • self-help + highlighting books

RESOURCES FOR YOU

Thank You for Listening!

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Category: -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

There are so many stories playing in our heads.
They are often lies.
Painful lies we listen to all day long.
Let’s stop that.
You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself.
Join me….

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Many lies we tell ourselves
  • How to know if it’s a lile
  • What to do if it’s really true?
  • What to do it it’s a lie

THANK YOU FOR LISTENING

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
  2. Subscribe on iTunes to the show.

Thanks for listening to How She Really Does It, the place where inspiration + possibility meet.

I am smiling big for you!

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Direct download: The_Lies_We_Tell_Ourselves.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

You have the ability to feel better.
Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much.
In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but really we add more pain later as we then beat ourselves for knowing better than we do.

In today’s episode I do a DEEP DIVE and teach you the steps to feeling better. I’ve also got a work book for you to do your MINDSET PRACTICE.

Make sure you download it.

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • Feelings are an inside job + what that means
  • The importance of understanding your feelings
  • Where your feelings come from
  • The key to feeling better – PRACTICE
  • Some better feeling thoughts for you to practice with

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

 

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: How_to_feel_better.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

You have worked really, really hard.
You have done your best to be a good person.
You have sacrificed yourself for others.
However you are still not where you want to be.
In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want.

LISTEN HERE

Mentioned in this Podcast

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: Mindset-_The_Key_to_Unlocking_the_Life_You_Truly_Want_BONUS.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

A very important lesson I learned some years back…
If people like you or don’t like you, it has nothing to do with you!

LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • difference between not being liked and doing harm to others
  • who we like
  • when we don’t like others

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: People_liking_you_has_nothing_to_do_with_you.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

We are fantastic at living in fear .
Think about the last time you were in fear what did you do?
When I used to live in fear, I didn’t know what my mind was saying.
LISTEN HERE

WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER

  • what happens when you live in fear
  • the difference in living in fear + feeling the fear
  • what you can do about it.

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: When_I_live_in_fear....DEEP_DIVE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

We all understand the fear of failure.
We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing?
How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important?
When you think of failure what do you make it mean?
  • I’m not enough?
  • I’m a loser
  • There s something wrong with me.
  • It s not possible for me, it s only for other special people

And I’m talking about the Fear of Success. What is success, why we are afraid of it and what we do to sabotage it.

Finally, what you can do to overcome both your fear of failure and your fear of success.

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • Fear of Success
  • What is success
  • What you can do about it.

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

 

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: Fear_of_Failure___Fear_of_Success.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

My clients get upset because they know better. However they are frustrated and then get even more frustrated with themselves because they are frustrated.

This is the beginning of a snowball effect, where the feeling grows and festers.

Discover what you can do and why it’s important to stop being frustrated about being frustrated.

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • Why this isn’t helpful
  • What to do about it instead
  • Learn about what causes your frustration

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

 

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: Stop_Being_Frustrated_with_Being_Frustrated.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

What’s the cost to you for staying small in your life?

To not be seen.

To not use your voice.

To not pursue what you really, really, really want.

I know you will tell me it’s safe…

However, listen to this MINISODE to find out the cost to you and what you need to show up in your life.

 

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • Examples of staying small
  • The cost to you for staying small in your life
  • What you need to show up in your life
  • The truth

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

 

Thank You for Listening!

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Direct download: Staying_Small_MINISODE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

We have many areas in our lives.

Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting.

In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena’s along with the steps of what to do to find out what you believe about yourself in your arena.

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • small hinges can move big doors
  • being a deliberate creator
  • how beliefs create reality
  • results as a reflection of what we believe
  • steps for you to discover what you believe

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

 

Thank You for Listening!

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Category:general -- posted at: 8:10am PDT

Instead of offloading hurt to others, it’s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground.

In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it.

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • Offloading our emotions to others
  • Hot potatoe effect
  • Importance to understand shame and know shame
  • Where our feelings come from
  • What’s the energy you want to put into your environment?

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
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Thanks for listening to How She Really Does It, the place where inspiration + possibility meet.

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Direct download: Be_Responsible_for_Your_Feelings.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:42am PDT

You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing.

However, that is not how you achieve the results you want.

In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead.

LISTEN HERE

MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • I’ll believe it when I see it
  • Believe to achieve
  • Belief examples

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
  2. Subscribe on iTunes to the show.

Thanks for listening to How She Really Does It, the place where inspiration + possibility meet.

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Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

Stanford psychologist Professor Carol Dweck research has focused on why people succeed and how to foster success. In her book Mindset, Professor Dweck states “how you think of yourself can determine the outcomes of your life.”

Listen to the interview as Professor Dweck explains:

  • Growth & Fixed Mindset
  • Mindset vs talent
  • Self – esteem & Mindset
  • Children & Mindset
  • Changing Mindset

Following the interview I asked Professor Dweck “What is the relationship between possessing a growth mindset and success as an entrepreneur.” Professor Dweck responded:

“…in my book I have a chapter on business and leadership in which I analyze the characteristics of successful leaders: the desire to take on challenges (as opposed to the desire to feed one’s ego), the desire for honest feedback (as opposed to the flattering feedback), the ability to face problems and setbacks and remain effective (as opposed to denying problems or blaming them on others), the desire to have great people on your team (as opposed to being threatened by others’ talents). These qualities are especially important in times like these, and each is a characteristic of the growth mindset. Recent research has examined this directly, examining business people who had breakout results with a new idea or product. The major thing they shared was a growth mindset.”

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Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

We all have obstacles. We tend to indulge in the drama that these obstacles should NOT be happening…

However, my friend, we all have obstacles. The question is what are you going to do about it.

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MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • how do you react to obstacles
  • compassion + curiosity
  • obstacles and mindset
  • FB exclusive community Becoming Enough Sign up here

Surround yourself with notes filled with stories and small lessons

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
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Category:general -- posted at: 7:13am PDT

How often are you measuring your success by the definition of others?

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MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • What is the definition of success
  • Steps to discover your own definition
  • The Promise of Success

Sign up for some LOVE…Sunday LOVE

 

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
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Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

Author Mike Robbins returns to talk about the importance of bringing your whole self to work and to your life.

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MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • Your ability to fully show up
  • What to do when terrified and under pressure
  • How to overcome obstacles
  • The desire for recognition and appreciation

Surround yourself with notes filled with stories and small lessons

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

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Most of us don’t want to do it.

It’s scary + hard. But we can do hard things.

Today’s podcast is about betting on yourself.

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MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • examples of betting on oneself
  • Martyr vs Doing it yourself
  • Components to being able to bet on one self

Surround yourself with notes filled with stories and small lessons

Thank You for Listening!

There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine. I am filled with gratitude for being a part of your day.

Tell me what you found most useful in today s show:

  1. Leave an honest review on iTunes review. Your ratings and reviews help out the show and I read each one and give shout-outs at the end of the show to each reviewer.
  2. Subscribe on iTunes to the show.

Thanks for listening to How She Really Does It, the place where inspiration + possibility meet.

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Category:general -- posted at: 3:00am PDT

Our lives are filled with pressure. It’s not about avoiding pressure, but about the ability to withstand pressure and move through it. Not to be taken down from pressure.

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MENTIONED ON THE SHOW

  • pressure is normal
  • it is something you can get used to
  • no need for unnecessary pressure/drama
  • build your pressure muscle

Surround yourself with notes filled with stories and small lessons

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The one thing I know for sure is we all want (and need) a place to belong.

In this Deep Dive, I discuss the difference our desire to belong over fitting in.

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  • fitting in vs. belonging
  • finding our tribe/community
  • perfection + belonging
  • our fear
  • self-hatred
  • creating belong for yourself

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

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It’s interview time! Been a while since I have had a guest on this show and I am bringing you a fantastic story to share.

Regina shares her journey to becoming the best version of herself and the work she went through to get there. It’s not about the quick fix. Find out how she became confident in herself in this journey.

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In this interview Regina and I talk about:

  • Real life personal development
  • How does one integrate personal development in your life
  • Transformation as one sees the beauty of oneself
  • How love, focus and commitment affect the outcome.

Discover how to create a way of living where the best version of yourself can show up.

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What is meaningful work? What do you feel called to do?

This is the final episode of the 6 podcast Leader of Your Life Series – Do Meaningful Work.

Notice I did not say, research, dream, think about. Nope – DO.

Give yourself permission that you don’t have to have it all figured out.

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”

~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

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BUILD A LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH FOOD + YOUR BODY is the 4TH of 6 podcast episodes in the Leader of Your Life Series
We are taught to hate food to stop with the urges.
We are taught to hate our bodies to shame us into action.
Shame is short-term and a great Kickstarter, however, it is not sustainable and really it leads to a shame storm – binging, quitting, giving up on yourself and creating a damaging relationship with yourself of self-hatred.
Instead, I am here to teach you a better way and it works. In this week s podcast Build a Loving Relationship with Food and Your body you will learn you can love food and your body as you get to your natural weight.

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You re highly educated and have high expectations of yourself. You re exhausted from living life worried about what other people think while trying to get approval from them at the same time. In the process of working so hard to be perfect, the anxiety of conforming is keeping you from being real.
You are tired of hiding and not speaking your truth, you are ready to own your voice.

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Conscious living does not have to be about meditating, being a yogi, organic + green foods human.

In this episode, I discuss what conscious living is, why you will benefit it and how to do it!

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You have rules that have been guiding your life, to be worthy:

  • you must be accomplished
  • you must be a certain size
  • you must be beautiful (damn wrinkles + gray hair)
  • you must be the ultimate step-mom
  • you must be the perfect date
  • you must make $$$
  • you must have the perfect job
  • you must look perfect
  • you must look to have everything under control
  • you must finally be perfect then you can be worthy
In this episode, I share the problem + the solution to you being ENOUGH.

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When you think of being brave what do you see?
I used to see the movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson and his fellow actors running down hills with swords in their hand.
But that is not being brave in my real life. However I am brave as I show up in my life, face challenges (though not always willingly), and speak my truth.
In this episode, I share stories about what being brave looks like in real life.

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I talk a lot about shame here on How She Really Does It. It is so important to know shame and understand it. If you don’t shame will own you.
In this episode, I go into where shame comes from, the feeling of shame, and how to overcome shame in your life.

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Let go of your past and focus forward. In this podcast, I talk about how you can do this.

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You have worked really, really hard.
You have done your best to be a good person.
You have sacrificed yourself for others.
However you are still not where you want to be.
In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want.

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One of my all-time favorite books is The Talent Code by New York Times bestselling author Daniel Coyle. Dan is a returning guest on this show. In past interviews, we discussed where talent comes from , the link between our brain and building talent and what you can do to build the skills that you need to be successful.

Dan has returned to the show to discuss what he has learned about cultures – both the DO’s and the DON’T’s. Dan’s lastest book is The Culture Code.

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In this interview Dan and I talk about:

  • Belonging in organizations and companies – why is it important
  • The misconception about highly successful cultures
  • Vulnerability and Trust (v precedes t)
  • Purpose – here is where we are, here is where we want to go
  • Mental Contrasting
  • Motivation | Goals | Stories
  • Knowing vs. Implementing

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I want to do what I want to do. No one is the boss of me. I must do it when I get inspired.
I am not disciplined, those are Type A people and I refuse to be that way.
That was my life before structure. Which also lead to a lot of frustration, overwhelm and lack of creating the life I wanted.
When you overcome resistance to structure to you get to create the real freedom you crave.
In today s deep dive I discuss why structure actually supports you and does not restrict you.

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Do you wake up with anxiety? Here is what you can do so you don’t live with it all day long.
This MINISODE is about dialing up the feelings you want to feel instead of accepting the crappy feelings.

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Burnout….what causes it?

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Three words I have worked extremely hard to never hear from my childhood – “shame on you.”
This MINISODE is about shame resistant vs. shame resilience.

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What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to live here. In the Land of Apathy, there will not be any losing face moments as they won t fail. They will not have to feel fear or anxiety of their pursuit not working out.

In this Deep Dive, I am talking about why the Land of Apathy is actually unsafe and filled with tremendous pain. If you live here, it will get worse.

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What most people believe is it is not okay to have boundaries. Those boundaries keep people out. They are not a nice person if they have boundaries. They are the dreaded b-word. They will be hated.
Imagine having boundaries as a tool to support you and your life.
Imagine boundaries keeping you safe
Imagine being a compassionate person who has boundaries.
Imagine have authentic connections with people you care about because you have boundaries.
In this MINISODE I am talking with you about BOUNDARIES TO SUPPORT YOU AND YOUR LIFE

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What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don t commit yet because they don t know if they have the right solution.

This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doing, they are searching.

Instead of commitment, they are actually creating more self-doubt which then leads to tinkering at one s self-trust.

In this Deep Dive, I am going to discuss why your lack of focus + commitment is derailing your results.

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Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet.

This week’s MINISODE: Believe to Achieve.

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