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As we say goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022, my invitation for you is to carve out space for you. Instead of filling it all up, allow yourself to keep some free, lean into it, trust yourself, and feel and hear everything you have to say.

Join me this week as I share the importance of having space. I’m showing you how to give yourself space to show up in your life, why it will sometimes feel vulnerable, and why giving yourself space is not selfish and is the pathway to the life that you want.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3sD4b9M

Direct download: 230_-_Finally_space_for_you.mp3
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It’s easy to think that if you were in a different scenario, or if you had more money, or if you didn’t do this or have that, you would be able to have balance in your life. But none of this is true because life balance is an illusion.

 

In this episode, I’m showing you why you need to break free from the illusion of the fairy tale of life balance. Discover how to stop thinking what you want is magically going to happen and start making your life work for you as it is right now.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3qjjLEK

Direct download: 229_-_The_fairy_tale_of_life_balance.mp3
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What do you really, really want in your life? I invite you to give yourself permission to answer this difficult question. Focus on what you want and create systems to support what you’re going after. Go all-in with your commitment and choose the best-case scenario for your life.

 

In this episode, I’m walking you through an important concept that I use all the time to help you get the results you want and overcome the obstacles that get in the way. I’m helping you stop avoiding what you want for fear of failure or disappointment and showing you how to take up space in your life and commit to the best-case scenario.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3yrqDDJ

Direct download: 228_-_Commit_to_best_case_scenario.mp3
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I’m sharing some examples of structures that can help you in different areas of your life and how to implement them. You get to define what works for you, so I’m sharing why creating structures in your life will help you have the flourishing, connected relationships you want while doing meaningful work that you love.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3075BOd

Direct download: 227_-_Structures_for_the_3_areas_of_life.mp3
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This week, I’m showing you how to reframe the way you think about obstacles and a step-by-step approach to help you work through them and get what you want. Obstacles might be messy and uncomfortable, but you have the power to get through them, so I’m showing you how to lean into the obstacle and move through it to land on the beautiful other side.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3l5VYX4

 

 

 

 

 

Direct download: 226_-_The_steps_to_overcoming_obstacles.mp3
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Daniel Pink is the author of provocative books about changing the world of work. At the time of this interview in 2013, his latest book was To Sell is Human. In this interview, Dan and I talk about how we are all salespeople now. You may not be selling an item or even a service, but you are influencing, persuading, or attempting to get someone’s attention.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/dan-pink-rejection-ww/]

Direct download: Dan_Pink__How_to_Handle_Rejection.mp3
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Listen in this week as I show you how to provide the space for yourself to feel your emotions and why it’s so important to do so. Great learnings occur when things are hard and uncomfortable, so I’m showing you how to tap into these and use them to deliberately create the life and connections you want.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3r4uAN0

Direct download: 225_-_The_day_after_MINISODE.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

We’re approaching the new year, which can be a time of transition and change. Often, those transitions and changes are in the form of resolutions and they are changes that we want to happen. Sometimes change happens to us. Whatever the reason behind the change, there are ways that we can get through those transitions and come out confident and grounded on the other side.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/6-questions-ww/]

Direct download: 6_Questions_To_Ask_When_To_Make_a_Change.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

This week, I'm sharing why there’s no right or wrong way to enjoy the holidays, and showing you why even though it won’t be perfect, it can be better. I’m showing you how to practice enjoying yourself without it being perfect and how gathering these insights helps you create the life you want.

 

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/30BI4Fa

Direct download: 224_-_The_holidays.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

In order to cultivate confidence, you have to start by asking yourself: "What gets in the way of confidence?" 

Listen in to this episode as I talk about how you can move away from shame and toward confidence by embracing vulnerability and self-compassion. I'll share some of my favorite affirmations for cultivating confidence, as well as some tips for taking small steps toward a more confident you.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cultivate-confidence-ww/

Direct download: 83-How_to_Cultivate_Confidence.mp3
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In this episode, I’m exploring what comes before gratitude and why it is so important to allow yourself to experience your hardships. Giving yourself permission to feel all the emotions is vital in processing them, so I’m showing you how to do that so you can love yourself and take care of yourself to get through to the other side.

 

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3C20sUr

Direct download: 223_-__Before_gratitude.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

My friend Hiro Boga is a business strategist, teacher, adviser, and mentor. In this episode, which was originally published in 2016, Hiro Boga and I talk about lifelong learning. We discuss curiosity, structure and stability, fear, and more.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/learning-hiro-boga-ww/]

Direct download: Lifelong_Learning.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Discover why setting boundaries can be so uncomfortable, but that it’s nothing compared to the discomfort you’ll experience if you never have proper boundaries in your life. Laura and I are discussing the cost of avoiding boundaries, how to decide what you want your boundaries to look like, and how to deal with the discomfort of enforcing those boundaries.

 

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3nVVvr7

Direct download: 222_-_The_obstacles_of_boundary_setting_with_Laura_Boydv2.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Are you curious about a side business? In this new world of work, many people find security, growth, and success in their side hustles. In this interview, which originally aired in 2014, my guest Kimberly Palmer and I talk about gaining traction in your side business. 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/kimberly-palmer-ww/]

Direct download: Kimberly_Palmer_Gaining_Traction.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

We’ve reached the final celebration for 15 years of the podcast, and who better to bring back than Pamela Slim. Pamela was on the show several times back in the early days, and she’s coming back to talk about doing purposeful work and building sustainable, trustworthy relationships.

 

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3nQxZvZ

Direct download: 221_-_Building_sustainable__trustworthy_relationships_with_Pamela_Slim.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

What does courage mean to you? Do you wish you had more? Andrea Scher, author of the popular blog Superhero Journal, joins me in this 2012 episode to talk about building courage and dealing with uncertainty. 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/andrea-scher-ww/]

Direct download: AndreaScher.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

In this episode of our four-part celebration of 15 years of How She Really Does It, we're discussing transformation. I’m bringing on an old favorite and very good friend of mine, Michele Woodward. We’re talking about being the person you want to be, how to become the leader of your own life, and the importance of being clear about what you want without being attached to it.

 

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3vuPNQn

Direct download: 220_-_Celebrating_15_years__transformation_with_Michele_Woodward.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

In this interview, which originally aired in 2014, I spoke with Pat about doubt and fear and how he stopped those two things from getting in his way. We talk about mental resistance, why it’s okay to fail, the importance of building relationships, and more.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/pat-flynn-ww/]

Direct download: Pat_Flynn_Overcoming_Doubt_and_Fear.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Discover where it all began 15 years ago, and who I’ve become throughout this journey. I’ve had so much wonderful feedback and met some incredible people while making this show, and I’m sharing the things that have kept me going over the past 15 years, and the many things I’ve learned along the way.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3mUrxU7

Direct download: 219_-_Where_it_began__15_years.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

In our conversation, which originally aired in 2014, Jill and I talk about changing our mindset to and relationship with time in order to make more out of the time we have. We talk about busyness and why it’s a choice, how to create manageable and effective to-do lists, where we need to be “rooted” from to take productive action, and more.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/jill-farmer-ww/]

Direct download: Jill_Farmer_Embrace_Time.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Tune in this week and hear where Anna and I were in 2006 and where we are now. So much can change in 15 years, so we’re sharing what we’d say to our former selves, the 3 things we enjoy about now that we didn’t know were possible 15 years ago, and the importance of knowing your why and setting boundaries in your life.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3uQr9cO

Direct download: 218_-_15_years_-_then_to_now_with_Anna_Vocino.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

In this episode, which originally aired in 2014, executive coach Michele Woodward and I discuss the paths that a parent can take to raise grounded and authentic children.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/michele-woodward-ww-children/]

Direct download: Michele_Woodward_4_Raising_Grounded_Authentic_Children_1.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Join me this week as I share some ways to cultivate your self-care capacity and the importance of integrating self-care into your routines or systems. The path to self-care is through observation, compassion, and learning, so I’m showing you how to create a self-care system that works for you and how to prioritize your self-care in your life.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/2Y1DSNy

Direct download: 217_-_Self-Care_Capacity.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

When you examine your finances and you don’t see the kind of growth that you want, you may have a problem with underearning, overspending, or both. What is the difference between those two problems and how do you identify them?

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mark-butler-ww-2/]

Direct download: Underearning_or_Overspending.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

This week, Laura Boyd joins me and we dive into the question: is leadership going soft? Hear the importance of giving and taking in business and why we believe there’s nothing soft about leadership. We discuss the difference between soft and hard skills and why being a leader requires both to be successful.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3hZTlEP

Direct download: 216_-_Is_leadership_going_soft.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

We tend to think about our careers in a certain way.  One job title, one way and then retirement.  Marci Alboher has been here before and made me and my listeners think of jobs careers in a different way as slasher careers. In this episode, Marci returns to talk about a new way to think about the second half of our careers.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/marci-alboher-ww-2/]

Direct download: MarciAlboherCareersinthe2ndhalfofYourLife.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Join me this week to hear some of the reasons people say "I'm sorry" and how to identify whether you are using it when you need to be. We have been culturally programmed to apologize for things that don’t always warrant an apology, and I’m showing you how to be deliberate in this powerful area of your life. Find out why we use "I'm sorry" and what to do instead.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3hypAKY

Direct download: 215_-_The_overused_Im_sorry.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Breast cancer transformed Terri Fedonczak’s life by creating clarity that helped her release her pursuit of money and status. In this episode, which originally aired in 2014, Terri and I discuss how you can repair your relationship with your teenager. It’s never too late to rebuild and repair that connection.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/terri-fedonczak-ww/]

Direct download: Terri_Fedonczak.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Join Laura and I this week as we have a conversation about the effects of imposter syndrome, procrastination, and when to show ourselves compassion. We discuss how this could show up in your life, how to allow yourself permission to do things, and how to tell whether you are showing yourself compassion or making an excuse.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3jTHZDA

Direct download: 214_-_Compassion...is_that_an_excuse.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Guest co-host Karen Walrond is back. Yes it’s the 21st Century, but sexism in the workplace still lives on.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/sexism-in-the-workplace-ww/]

Direct download: Sexism_in_the_Workplace.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Brave leadership is uncomfortable, it’s messy, and you’re going to make mistakes, but it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong.

Find out what it takes to be a brave leader in your life and how to use it to get what you want. Discover the truth about brave leadership, the importance of trusting the process, and what the results are in your life when you do.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3gQpspT

Direct download: 213_-_The_truth_about_brave_leadership.mp3
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How do you feel about your income? Could you be earning more than you are now? Underearning affects so many women who are not being paid as much as they are worth. Even if you are currently underearning, financial empowerment is within your reach. 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/barbara-stanny-ww-oe/]

Direct download: BarbaraStanny092.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Join Laura Boyd and I this week for a discussion on The Great Awakening and the importance of giving yourself permission to take the first step towards making a change in your life.

 

We have all pivoted to some degree over the last 18 months, and we’re sharing our own experiences, what to do if you are experiencing these things, and why, to make a change, you have to first get comfortable with the uncomfortable.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3DhDvOK

Direct download: 212_-_The_Great_Awakening.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

I’ve become comfortable in white space. And I think that going into white space takes tremendous courage and vulnerability (uncertainty, emotional exposure, and risk). The reward of that courage and vulnerability is gaining the opportunity to really get to know yourself. In this podcast, which was originally published in 2016, Hiro Boga and I talk about white space and how we can use it to return to ourselves. Hiro is a business strategist, teacher, adviser, and mentor.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/white-space-ww/]

Direct download: White_Space_to_Return_to_Yourself.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Hear why self-care is so important in dealing with the hard stuff and how to remember you are not alone. I’m sharing what self-care means to me, how to establish what it looks like for you, and the importance of giving yourself time to play during hard times.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/2W6YVNT

Direct download: 211_-_You_are_not_alone.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Many of us love listening to music while we work or do other tasks that require focus. When you can tap into the right formula, you’ve probably found that you get a significant productivity boost from it. Is it just because music is enjoyable, or is there neurological activity behind it that we can tap into to maximize our focus?

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/will-henshall-ww/]

Direct download: Will_Henshall.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

This week, Laura and I share our own experiences of imposter syndrome and how we have learned to manage our mindsets around it. Discover some ways that imposter syndrome can serve you, and how to change your mindset to get beyond it and believe in your own abilities.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3yHaolB

Direct download: 210_-_Imposter_Syndrome.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Four-time Olympian, 27 time All-American, and 16 National Championships, today's guest Jill Sterkel knows about success. And as the head coach of the University of Texas women's swim team from 1992-2006 she also understands leadership for women. 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/jill-sterkel-ww/]

Direct download: Jill_Sterkel_Leadership_and_Success_for_Women.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

This week as I share why tapering into vacation will help you enjoy your experience more when you’re there. Learn why the success of your vacation is really on your terms, as long as you are clear about what you want from it, and the importance of being deliberate about what you need to transition in and out of your vacation.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3rT41ss

Direct download: 209_-_Tapering_for_vacation.mp3
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What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space and keep your energy.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/bad-mood-ww/]

Direct download: Anna_Vocino_-_everyone_else_in_a_bad_mood.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Laura Boyd is back on the show as a guest co-host today, and we’re talking all about dealing with difficult people and sharing some real-life examples of this. There will always be difficult people, but we get to decide how we deal with them. We talk about difficult situations and how to handle them and how to shift the paradigm and the way you think about difficult people.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3i5t3Bv

Direct download: 208_-_Dealing_with_difficult_people.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Dr. Heidi Grant Halvorson, is a social psychologist who researches, writes, and speaks about the science of motivation. Today Heidi has returned to talk specifically about applying her research for parenting – motivating and influencing our children.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/heidi-halvorson-ww/]

Direct download: Heidi_Grant_Halvorson-_Motivating_and_Influencing_Our_Children.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

Laura Boyd joins me to discuss the changes in behavior we’re seeing in the workplace as a result of the pandemic, and we’re diving deep into what’s been labeled ‘The Great Resignation’. We discuss workplace loyalty, the importance of establishing boundaries, and some advice and questions to ask yourself if you are considering a resignation of some sort.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3rnRCwF

Direct download: 207_-_The_Great_Resignation_with_Laura_Boyd.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

You want to help others. You want to make the world a better place. But where do you start? To make your service efforts sustainable you should look for things that fit into your life, that don't drain you, and that aren't attached to a story of what you should be doing. And be careful not to shy away from the acts of service that you could be doing because you don’t think they are big enough, sexy enough, or exciting enough.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/jen-louden-world-ww/]

Direct download: Jen_Louden_-_Helping_the_World__Taking_Care_of_Ourselves.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

I’m exploring invitations and obligations from the point of view of the giver and receiver and highlighting how implied messages of obligation could be showing up in your life. The only thing we have control over is the narrative we tell ourselves, so I’m teaching you how to get clear on what works for you and stop making other people responsible for your emotional wellbeing.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3hG98c0

Direct download: 206_-_Its_an_invitation_not_an_obligation.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 2:00am PDT

A lot of us struggle with reading feedback and the non-verbal cues from our environment. We tend to go inside of us to make sense of it rather than viewing things objectively and staying in the moment and staying closer to reality. My guest, Renee, offers us a valuable piece of insight from her friend who says, “reality is so much kinder than what we think reality is.”

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/renee-sievert-ww/]

Direct download: Showing_Up_in_Your_Life.mp3
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I'm sharing what being emotionally responsible looks like and showing you why it is vital to work through and release all emotions – even the negative ones. Learn why it is never too late to become responsible for your emotional health and how to develop an understanding of feeling your feelings and moving through them.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/2Vha3am

Direct download: 205_-_Emotional_health.mp3
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Susan Hyatt is back! In this conversation we are talking about judgment. Do we know what judgment from others is like. Join us for this conversation, which originally aired in 2016, so you don’t have to let judgment make you small anymore.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/judgment-susan-hyatt-ww/]

Direct download: Judgment.mp3
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Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. But over time, this armor becomes heavy and everything we bury beneath builds up and overflows. My friend, there is a better way to live. I'm showing you how to give yourself time and patience to cultivate a feelings system and how to give yourself the permission and space to feel all the feelings and thrive in your life.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3dqpbrV

Direct download: 204_-_Compartmentalizing_stop_surviving_and_start_thriving.mp3
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At age 22, Laura Roeder quit her design job and started her own entrepreneurial journey.  She built and ran a successful online training business and became known as an A lister in the social media business world.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/laura-roeder-ww/]

Direct download: Why_Focus_Priorities_and_Constraint_.mp3
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I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing?

 

I’m showing you when to be proud in your life, and how to cultivate a transformational relationship with being proud. Learn how to celebrate your milestones, goals, and accomplishments and be truly proud of yourself, and the ripple effect that this creates for other areas of your life.

 

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3d58Toi

Direct download: 203_-_Being_proud_of_yourself.mp3
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The new world of work is unpredictable. How do you put together your eclectic background with your values and do work you enjoy? 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/pamela-slim-ww/]

Direct download: Pamela_Slim_Body_of_Work.mp3
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I'm exploring how powerful it is to ask yourself what you need and then seek whatever it is inside of you. I promise, what you seek is there inside. But first we have to stop judging ourselves and looking externally. I show you how to do this today and invite you to get curious about why you seek these things from anyone but yourself.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://bit.ly/3cOwrxv

Direct download: 202_-_What_you_seek...is_inside_of_you.mp3
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Martha Atkins is the founder and chief executive officer of Atkinsosity, LLC, where she works with individuals who are dying and the families who love them. Her work in the world is to help people be less afraid of death and dying.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/martha-atkins-ww/]

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Hear why it takes immense courage to embody fierce self-compassion, the benefits that it brings, and why it is not selfish to take care of yourself. I’m so excited for you to hear this chat and I know that learning about this work will enable you to lead your life authentically and in alignment with your truths and what you need.

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After climbing a tall ladder of success, Tess Vigeland left NPR and has been on her own “hero’s journey.”  In this interview, which originally aired in 2015, Tess and I discuss her book and what it is and is not. It’s really the truth about leaving.

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Whether parenting your step-kids, bonus kids, birth kids, or adopted kids, we are all bonuses to each other, not less than. Join me this week as I show you how to show up full of love for each other, reframe the way you think about roles, and allow all of the things that happen, even the messiness.

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This episode’s guest is Garrett Lowe, former Air Force pilot. In this 2015 interview, Garrett talks about becoming a pilot. There were lots of obstacles in the way, but he did not let them define him. He had a distinguished and decorated flying career in spite of those obstacles.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/garrett-lowe-ww/]

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Discover how to give yourself permission to do whatever you need in the moment and the importance of taking the first step. I’m showing you how to surrender your to-do list and all that you need to do when your cup is empty, and discover what you need to do to fill yourself up in the moment.

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Gay Hendricks, Ph.D., has been a leader in the fields of relationship transformation and bodymind therapies for over 45 years. After earning his Ph.D. in counseling psychology from Stanford, Gay served as professor at the University of Colorado for 21 years. Gay is here to talk about our human potential and how to get there.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/gay-hendricks-ww/]

 

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Find out how Kate learned to be vulnerable and translated this to all other areas of her life. She shares how her life has completely changed since working together, and how she developed the courage to allow for the messiness and change her life for the better.

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Do you feel there is a missing piece? Are you in search of peace? Annie Burnside is a soul nurturer, and author of two books Soul to Soul and her latest From Role to Soul. Annie is here to talk about the missing piece that is rooted in self-awareness so you can lead a cohesive, whole approach to living in the modern world.

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/annie-burnside-ww/]

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I’m sharing how cultural programming and patriarchy have left us believing that we are supposed to always be perfect and put together, and why we don’t have to be perfect to be worthy. Letting go of perfection and fully showing up as yourself is empowering, so I’m showing you how to stop looking for your faults and instead look at the beauty you have inside of yourself.

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One of the myths of vulnerability is that we practice vulnerability in isolation. But that's not true. We need to step into our lives to create what we want. 


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I'm discussing the importance of being able to process your emotions and what we can learn from Michael Phelps’ Olympic success. I’m exploring how to cultivate a feeling system and become a deliberate creator so that you can show up better, become the person you want to be, and create the life you truly desire.

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You’re highly educated and have high expectations of yourself. You’re exhausted from living life worried about what other people think while trying to get approval from them at the same time.You are tired of hiding and not speaking your truth. You are ready to own your voice.

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Where are you a leader? In what arena are you willing to step up? Discover why being a leader requires courage, and the transformations that can happen when you start believing you are a leader. Great leaders are brave and willing to step up, and I’m showing you exactly how to do that this week.

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Regardless of the size of your ideal circle, the key to building and maintaining relationships that make us feel connected + safe is having courageous conversations.

Courageous conversations mean emotional risk: they require authenticity + vulnerability. But they allow us to deepen our closest relationships and gently let go of relationships that aren't the right fit.

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Join us this week to hear a beautiful story of transformation, and how Brenda learned to treat herself with more kindness, compassion, and respect. We discuss how far she’s come in the last four years, and how she has completely transformed her life. If this is possible for Brenda, what's possible for you?

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You can have strong, connected and authentic relationships. It is not about whether you are worthy or good enough to have them. It's about being brave enough to go out and cultivate the relationships you want.

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Join me this week as I share why love and compassion for yourself will cultivate your ability to have love and connection with others. Learn how to stop blaming yourself and other people for doing things wrong, and how to start trusting your inner compass and make soul care a priority.

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This episode is about aligning with your values + integrity. It will help you make decisions in your life that empower you as well as support those who matter in your life. 

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Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do. Tune in this week as Brené and I talk about all things shame and worthiness, and the power of owning and sharing our stories. Discover some key learnings from this episode that still apply almost 10 – 15 years later, and learn what keeps us feeling small and unworthy in our lives.

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Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letting go of the external rules of who you are supposed to be, what you are supposed to think and how you are supposed to live your life.  It’s about letting go of all those damn supposed to’s and living as YOU. 

Get full show notes and more information here: [https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/leader-life-ww/]

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Join us this week to discover why we are hardwired for belonging and why we are all innately worthy of love. I’m sharing three key learnings from this interview with Brené that are still applicable 10 years on, and how you can take these learnings and incorporate them into your life.

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Tara Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership playing bigger in work and in life. Her book, Playing Big: Find Your Voice, Your Mission, Your Message, she shares her model for making the journey from playing small—being held back by fear and self-doubt—to playing big, taking bold action to pursue what you see as your callings.

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Join me this week as I share how we create prison walls for ourselves by what we think and how to let go of a fixed mindset and limiting beliefs. I share why you are the leader of your life, why enjoying your life takes courage, and why there’s no right or wrong decision when it's made from a place of authenticity.

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Lissa Rankin, M.D. is a mind-body medicine physician, author and speaker. Lissa has been a guest on the show before talking about our mind over medicine + our bodies. In this interview we talk about fear and how to move out of fear.

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Join us this week for a fascinating discussion about the effects of technology and social media and why we need to be aware of what is happening in our brains when we decide to engage with these tools. Alexandra shares the perspective shifts she gained since giving up social media and some ways you can harness deeper connections with those around you without relying on social media.

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Guest Co-host Anna Vocino and I talk about GOALS.

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Join me this week as I share the beauty and gifts I found in 2020 and explain why we can get stronger from the challenges and obstacles that we go through. I’m sharing what I’ve learned in the last year, what got me through, and why we will all have obstacles in life, but some of them we get to choose to overcome.

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Hiro Boga is a business strategist, teacher, adviser, and mentor. Hiro returns as a guest co-host to discuss self-trust.

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It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising up is really important. Rising up to show up as your best self will enable you to start creating the life and relationships that you want.

Tune in this week as I share three lessons I’ve learned to cultivate the rising up process and that you can use to do the same in your life. I’m showing you how to create relationships with others where they treat you the way you desire to be treated, and how to overcome the obstacles that are holding you back in life. It’s time to stop dragging dead cows across the desert!

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Jen Louden is the guest co-host on How She Really Does It. She helped start the self-care movement with her first book, The Woman's Comfort BookIn this conversation we talk about how to stay with your journey when it gets difficult.

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This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect on who we are and who we want to be. Many of us want to become a better person, but you mustn’t discount the wonderful person you already are.

Join me this week as I show you how to use experiences of grief and loss to become a deliberate leader, and why we shouldn’t discount the learning we experience in our lives. I share why who you are becoming is a journey, not a destination, and why it’s the small steps along the way that make a big difference.

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Hiro Boga is a business strategist, teacher, adviser, and mentor. Hiro returns as a guest co-host to discuss how change really happens.

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Tune in this week as I show you why money is not tied to your worth as a person and how to acknowledge the internal messaging you grew up with. I’m sharing some tools to make money and create wealth, and showing you how to spend money in a way that delights you. Saving money is important, but so is spending it.

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Alice Boyes, Ph.D is here to talk about Anxiety. She is the author of The Anxiety Toolkit: Strategies for Fine-Tuning Your Mind and Moving Past Your Stuck Points. In this 2015 episode, Alice and I have a conversation about anxiety, why it’s so common, and how to shift out of an anxious mindset.

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Join me this week as I share the importance of making time for yourself and how calendaring this time in can help you commit to this. I'm showing you how to cultivate a growth mindset and let go of thinking you have to do things in a certain way. Making time for yourself is not a chore – it’s a gift. Allow yourself to receive it.

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Have you ever sat down and thought about why you want what you want? Are your goals really in line with your true desires? I find that it’s so common for us to strive for things because other people have them, because we think it’s the next logical step, or because we’re conditioned to want them. In this conversation, which originally aired in 2016, Jeannette Maw and I talk about how to focus on your goals to get clear on what you really want.

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Tune in this week as I share four common obstacles people face when working towards achieving a goal, and four ways to reframe these beliefs to better serve you. I’m showing you why being curious will always lead to growth and why there’s no right or wrong way to do something, only your way.

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Are you wanting to create change in your life? Are you frustrated that the change is not sticking? In this interview Mike Robbins and I talk about getting out of your own way to creating lasting change in your life.

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Join me this week as I’m showing you how to respond to disappointment and understand your feelings and the stories that you’re telling yourself. I’m explaining the importance of learning to live in uncertainty and showing you how to develop the courage to go after what you want in life!

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Cathy and Todd Adams, hosts of Zen Parenting Radio, joined me in this 2014 episode to talk about how to become more aware and conscious so that you can transform your family relationships.

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In this episode, I’m showing you how to identify the reasons you are resisting and sharing some tips to help you overcome resistance and achieve your goals. I explain the effects of resistance and how overcoming it will enable you to create the life you truly desire. Not everything has to be hard, my friend. Go out there and overcome your resistance!

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Torie Henderson is a well-known speaker, teacher and coach, who helps parents stay sane in the land of crazy . She uses her 20 years of experience in family life education and human development to help caring, over-worked parents live their best lives so their kids will, too.

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In today’s show, I explore the different kinds of storytelling and how each one impacts your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs about yourself and the world. I show you how to increase your capacity to feel all the feelings so you can start telling whole, true stories. You deserve to tell yourself the truth. Become the storyteller of the future you want.

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Have you ever thought about your feelings as messengers who are here to tell you something important?

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In today’s episode, I encourage you to consider whose race you’re competing in, and if you even want to be there. There is so much growth and fulfillment to be found when we choose our own race and stay in our authentic lanes. I’m sharing how you can find clarity around this and what to do when you start focusing backward. Remember, you are worthy right now, right here, win or lose.

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Dr. Krisin Neff is a researcher, professor, and author. In this interview we discuss the effects of compassion for ourselves and others.

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